Feeling out of place in college?

I'm a 20 year-old female college student that feels like a misfit. I go to a state school, make really great grades, but when I look at what my peers are doing I get this feeling of being too mature for what they call "fun". I've tried reconnecting with old high school friends, but either their lives are just as uneventful as mine or they're sorority party girls. Maybe it's the state I live in, which is Oklahoma. I don't drink alcohol and the idea of partying just to have some random guy grind on me is a disgusting thought. I feel like a little bit of me dies everyday because of the lack of culture, art and things to do besides drink and party. What should I do? What do you think is missing for me? I work diligently in my school work and at my job only to be bored every Friday and Saturday night.